Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm following your posts and I was wondering, does your sexuality class teaches you anything about seducing men? I want to spice things up with my boyfriend but I don't know what the best way is... like dressing sexy, lapdances? What are your thoughts?
Sadly, it does not. That would be useful wouldn’t it? It’s more scientific than really practical. But I’m sure I can still help you out! First off: confidence! Do you have some of that? Good, I’m glad. It’s a great asset. So long as you think you look good, he probably will too. It’s proven that if a women thinks she looks good in her outfit, her boyfriend/husband/significant other will too. Dressing sexy is always a great way to start off. Sexy doesn’t mean slutty though. Sexy means class. Make sure you’re classy and you’re coy and cute about it. Men like virgins who are sexually experienced. How that works is beyond me, but that’s what they like. So stick with being classy. I suggest some really nice heels that elongate your legs but that you can walk in. Last thing you want is to fall flat on your face. Lap dances are proven to arouse a male (why else would strip clubs/ female entertainers be so successful?) but there is a large difference between a good lap dance and a very bad lap dance. If you don’t know how I suggest doing some research (I think Cosmopolitan is an excellent source for material like that).
I know this may seem crazy and that I’m a lunatic for suggesting things but try using toys. Whatever suits your fancy or tell each other your fantasies and act them out. There are tonnes of things that you can do sexually if that’s what you want or not if you’re in the early stages. Do whatever is most comfortable to you and what you think is appropriate. Talk about it with your partner. Communication can really improve your intimacy in many ways and not just sexually.
I hope that answered your question! Thanks for following our blog!
—jessica and zoe